Friday, August 16, 2013

We do NOT like change.

Oh yes, change is inevitable. It is part of life. Yesterday was my daughter's first day back to technology school without homeschooling to go with it.

That wouldn't have been a problem but when she arrived her teacher was changed, the computers went from PC to Mac, the desks were no longer in a row, but in a cube of four....the list went on.

That was a lot for a person who is an introvert and mildly OCD. As I explained to her, it is like switching jobs. This is part of the life skill training she will need. (But deep inside I wanted to fix it and make it better.)

I truly believe this is going to be a great year for her AND me. I have decided to make some big changes too but I am keeping it quiet until my plans solidify. You wouldn't believe how people talk amongst themselves and make it their business to know YOUR business. I just don't want the pressure, nor do I want to be the subject of conversations...especially if my plans fall through.

So...prayers for our changes would be appreciated. :)

26 comments:

Mii Stitch said...

Good luck with your life changes Parsley :)

Denise said...

Exciting times-You have My prayer to Our Lord-Denise

Intense Guy said...

Some genius once said, "Change is inevitable, except from vending machines."

I hope your sweet girl adjusts quickly and does well and will pray that you do well too.

Vickie said...

Oh Parsley! We are going through big changes are our home right now too. So hard on this mama. I am praying for you all.

Robin in Virginia said...

Oh Parsley, hoping the changes in your daughter's life and yours go smoothly. And you were so right in telling her that it is a life skill experience. All of these experiences will help with her journey down the road of life.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Robin in Virginia

Melissa said...

I totally get it! I remember as a child my family changed our couch out for a new one... I bawled and screamed enough to kill someone! That couch was horribly ugly (as in poop brown shaggy material), but I loved it! How dare they change it.

Not much has changed now, I'm still set in my ways and change still makes me uncomfortable but I'm not afraid of it. Putting myself in life changing situations has actually been very rewarding and I wouldn't 'change' (pardon the pun) for the world.

Good luck with everything!

Melissa

stitchersanon said...

Maybe I can help as a college lecturer pre-bc (breast cancer rofl_.

Parsley's daughter: sometimes courses are really popular or are not popular enough and so colleges often alter formats and set ups. I am guessing here they are trying to make the college more like a work situation as working with computers in a company you are often put in sterile cubicles: if you have your moms imagination you will find a way to make it yours and make it work for you.

Sadly tutors change; they have lives so it may be that hey change colleges, have babies or are crap in which case you don't want them.

Just focus on the goals of the course; see the end result and (excuse the french) kick ass to achieve them. I have Aspergers and I used to have to teach in this environment: if I can do it (super-anal) you can too!!! Know that we are all behind you and are supporting you and your mum (cus she is so needy rofl). You are only actually at college for just over 30 weeks if you take into account holidays; take out of those weeks weekend and you will see it is very little time at all. You can do this. Just focus on the course materials and what you actually want from this. Your so lucky: you know there is life outside college because you were home ed; so use this to keep some perspective. The first two weeks are the hardest, it will get much easier I promise xx

Unknown said...

Prayers for the changes and paws and fingers crossed tight over here. Now you got us wondering what the changes are? Guess we will have to wait. Drats. Have a fabulous Friday.
Best wishes Molly

gracie said...

Sending good thoughts to you and your daughter...all will work out....

Bernadett said...

Yes,sometimes we need changes...I pray for you...You pray for us,please...We/I need a change,too,but I am nor quiet sure where my path should go...I just know I need a change...job change/life change...

Hugs.:)

stellaroselong said...

Being a xmilitary wife change had to be my middle name so i am very comfortable with it, butch on the other hand hates change, if i move something the other way an inch he notices it right of off bat!! Sending you good thoughts as you figure out what you are doing.
stella rose's momma

Pam in IL said...

Prayers for both you and your daughter as you navigate the changes in your lives.

HUGS

Jackie said...

Prayers for your daughter as she adapts...and she will
And prayers for you, my friend. May the changes you seek be in God's will and may happiness accompany you always.
Love,
J.

Mouse said...

hope things have settled down abit and you have got a routine that suits you ... it all is part of the life skills you need , change and adapting to different situations help you to be able to tackle anything ... keep smiling and working hard :)
Parsley if you need an ear I am here just peeping round the corner :) love mouse xxxxx

Anne said...

Change is so hard at that age...I rued the day of change..still do at times. Hopefully she will get into a routine and it won't seem so bad. Praying for you and her!

Denise said...

Praying for you both.

Catherine said...

Sending best wishes and prayers for your daughter! Hope all works out for you as well!

Julie said...

Good thoughts to you both as you embark on a new chapter in your lives, wishing all the best and hope it goes well for you both.

diamondc said...

Good luck on your changes keep us posted.

Sharon said...

I don't do change well either.

So, I understand - and pray that God will ease the new transitions, and that He will teach us mighty things when He takes us out of the *comfort zone*.

GOD BLESS!

Fairfield House said...

Change is the only constant and evidence of life. I look forward to seeing what you have in the works. Know that you have many friends here and we all support your efforts! :)

Love, Deborah
FairfieldHouseNJ.com

Simply Victoria said...

I'm not a fan of change either but I know that without it no growth would occur. So it draws me closer to the Lord. Praying that it will do the same for you and your daughter.

Valma said...

good thoughts to you both...I'm sure everything will be OK =)
I wish you all the best and keep us informed
xxxxx

Trace4J said...

Woolie hugs love and prayers friend.

♥ Nia said...

Good luck! I hope you'll accomplish what you have in mind :)

Meari said...

Change is good. Good luck with your changes.