Saturday, August 25, 2012

Blessings Through Tears

It has been a hard few days after the loss of our Rosie. I want to thank you for all the emails, notes, and comments. My husband and I sat and read every one of them, more than once, and as the tears flowed it helped heal our hearts just a little knowing others understood and cared. (If you haven't read Rosie's goodbye tribute, please see the post below.)

You may not have known this, but when you took the moment to leave your thoughts, it was a REAL BLESSING to us. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!

It's so hard to not think about her at every moment. She had required so much special care that everything we did had to be around her needs first.

We still have a six pack of dogs and a healthy child. We are thankful.

For the last few days there have been NO play-fights or wrestling from the dogs. They sit next to us as closely as they can and watch our faces to see if we are going to be okay. We will.

My next posts will be focused on lighter things. It's not that I won't still be heavy hearted but healing sometimes begins by busying oneself and forcing one's thoughts off of the obvious pain. Denial? Yes, but it's necessary.

Thank you again and again for your kind words. I feel so blessed by you all.


19 comments:

Chatty Crone said...

You know dogs can really tell when their loved ones are hurt or upset - so they know you are hurting and they probably know too.

Hugs and God's care around all!

sandie

Unknown said...

Do focus on lighter things as it will help and no matter you have a little piece of your heart missing.....stolen by a beautiful four legged friend and that will never change. Have a great Saturday.
Best wishes Molly

Furry Bottoms said...

I love your heart, Parsley. You mentioned to me the other day about the routines... and it got me to thinking. I totally understand, because I have a routine where Freddy is concerned. I have to give him an allergy pill and get him to use the inhaler every single day... and cook plain chicken for him... I cannot imagine what it will be like without that routine. Very hard. But the thing is, you will find a new "normal" and be thankful for what Rosie has taught you and your family.

Anonymous said...

Just like with any loved one, their memories will be with us forever. I just lost another pet last night myself. Butch, my Dad's "puppy" died last night from old age. He'd stopped eating. Some how he knew it was his time and he just passed quietly. He's gonna be missed terribly, already I am catching myself doing things that I would normally do concerning him, having to remember that he's gone. I know it will get better with time. To me death is not a bad thing. It's a release from all the aches and pains that age brings...and in knowing that I am happy for it.

gracie said...

In 2005 we sent my beloved Sherlock Holmes Over Rainbow Bridge. Not a day goes by that I do not miss him. Yes we still have our Zoe who now is not well, but they never really leave us..not one day. I am sure that my Sherlock was waiting to say hello to Rosie...

Beth said...

My thoughts and prayers remain with you!

Anonymous said...

Hang in there Parsley. I know the pain. It does pass. I am praying for all of you.♥

Anonymous said...

Hello Parsley

Yes, you're right I think you do need to force your mind away for a bit.
The fact is that each one of our pets is different and no matter how long ago we lost them the sadness remains.
I'm sure your other pets will be looking after you.
Rosie was a precious gift to you and one that won't be forgotten.
Hugs, Holly x

cucki said...

oh dear i can feel your agian..you and your family are all in my thoughts and prayers.
love you xx

Primitive Stars said...

Hello Parsley, bless all your furbabies, I`m sure they miss Rosie to, the house just isn`t they same as it was, someone is missing. My heart still aches for you, time is slow in healing, I still miss our little Daisy who left us 2 years ago. God Bless, Francine.

Sherry said...

I have not had time to visit my favorite blogs and I was saddened to hear that you had lost your sweet dog. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Anonymous said...

Parsley,
Day by day, you will replace the pain with happy memories. You will always miss the ones you love when they pass over and some days the pain may feel as fresh and raw as the first day, but remember THIS life is temporary and you will be reunited in a better place.
Your Friend,
Deborah

Tracey said...

Praying for you! I know it's hard, we had to put our Wolf down a few years ago, and we had no other dogs. It's an empty feeling! Hoping each day it gets a little easier. ((((HUGS)))

Denise said...

Sending love, prayers, and great big hugs your way.

Dogmom Diva said...

Pars, I am still personally hurting as are you..it brings it all too close to home with me as we have three dogs who are 'getting up there' and the thought of losing them hurts my heart, as does Rosie passing hurt my heart, too. Just want you to know I am thinking of you right now...
hugs and love,
Barb

Anonymous said...

Hello Parsley

So sorry to hear about Rosie. My thoughts are with you all.
Annie x

♥ Nia said...

Sending love and hugs to you sweetie!!

Intense Guy said...

*Hugs*

Annesphamily said...

Losing a loved one is awful whether they are human or furry! My heart aches for your family because I am still grieving over my boy Boots! Life is hard, my mother always said, Pray harder! So I do and will do it for you and yours!